Here Are the Answers
- You don’t have to talk to girls. Talking to people is not an issue — you have to give up control of the conversation.
- Ask them questions about themselves (not too personal)
- Compliment their shoes
- Ask them what they think about [pick topic]
- Ask them about their job, major or even the standard interview question “Where do you see yourself in 5 years?”
- If you are too shy to look ‘em in the eyes, look to the top of their ears (it actually looks like you are looking at them).
- Nothing wrong with being a pacifist – great people never used violence
- Possible Reasons
- You actually don’t like him enough to be kissed by him
- He is a terrible kisser (that has happened to me)
- Kissing for him is step one of many, while you just want to snog
- Bad breath
- Why date? Go group.
- Divorce Rate is almost 75% in the US. Don’t blame you. Marriage is just a piece of paper. If you are scared to be committed to one person or not emotionally mature to take that step — then don’t.
- Gas costs too much money. Take public transportation, walk, bike or even skip. Save your money and hopefully you are not scared of flying because of all that money you’ve just saved from not paying for gas, insurance, maintenance and car payment you can take two weeks vacation to another country every year.
- Alone and Lonely are two different things.
- Alone is when you are solo
- Lonely is a state of mind
- You get out an join (not online) a group, create a group or get a pet. But to have the potential to actually not be alone means you have to make efforts to be social. Nobody is going to come up to you and say “Be My Friend” or sweep you off your feet (neither will happen – if it does check Police reports for possible matches).
- Go back to college or take a hobby class or learn something new.
- You have to like yourself before anyone else.
- Get rid of your 13 cats.
- See 5
- Death isn’t about consequences or going to a different place (hell or heaven) — It is about making the most of your life. Dying when you have lived life to your fullest – taking chances and eliminating those “could have” or “what if” in your future. Live your life as if tomorrow as if you have to see it in movie form, would you be rooting for your character? Be proud of yourself and don’t take life and death too seriously. Or just join Jehovah’s Witnesses who believe we all come back to life after the great war of Good vs Evil.
- Getting a job is one step towards developing independence, maturity and financial stability. Why would anyone want that. Lets just be 17 for the rest of our lives.
- Personally having a job = income.
- Income = taxes
- Taxed = good citizenship
- Good Citizenship = nothing . . . . forget it. Don’t get a job and live at home the rest of your life. (see 4, 5 & 7)