Solution to Better Marriage :: Daily Sex
Mr. Young, an author, a television host and the pastor of the evangelical Fellowship Church, issued his call for a week of â’congregational copulationâ’ among married couples, while pacing in front of a large bed. Sometimes he reclined on the paisley coverlet while flipping through a Bible, emphasizing his point that it is time for the church to put God back in the bed.
â’Today weâ’re beginning this sexperiment, seven days of sex,â’ he said, with his characteristic mix of humor, showmanship and Scripture. â’How to move from whining about the economy to whoopee!â’
Personal Thoughts
It takes heterosexuals to only think about sex and the only solution about marriage is more f*cking. Forget talking, stronger communication, spending time together in an activity, or even bowling. All those emotional connections that help build a stronger sex life . . . foolish. Just f*ck?
If you think for one moment that your marriage will be better with more sex … you are foolish.
Sex is important. That is what defines the difference between friendship and lovers. Sex is NOT the bond that holds a marriage together if it did then explain the bond of those marriages (for medical reasons or other reasons) that have limited sex? Can it be an emotional commitment? Can is be more that a fancy of a 14 year old mistaking love for affection? When we are young we do not know the difference between love, hormones and affection. That is why when we were young simply hand holding accelerated our heartbeats and now as adults it is a flattering form of affection. We grow older understanding the difference. Doesn’t maturity define love and commitment beyond f*cking? I believe it does.
Marriage and Commitment is more than procreation and sex. It is a bond that can be broken even in a sexually active marriage. A bond called love.
That is why religious zealots, like Mr. Young and his followers, will never understand the true meaning of love between two committed same-sex partners. It is the evangelical “christian” who are obsessed with sex, who is having it, how, when and with whom. For evangelical “christians” it is all about sex.
Maybe that is why I see so many unhappy married “christian” woman . . . pity them, I do.